{"id":788,"date":"2010-07-14T15:46:23","date_gmt":"2010-07-14T20:46:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/?p=788"},"modified":"2010-07-14T15:46:23","modified_gmt":"2010-07-14T20:46:23","slug":"happy-black-girl-day-the-prototype-dawn-flythe-moore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/happy-black-girl-day-the-prototype-dawn-flythe-moore\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Black Girl Day! The Prototype: Dawn Flythe Moore"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">Photographer: Taiye Selasi<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"..\/?p=212\">Four months ago<\/a>, I  introduced many of you\u00a0 to \u201cHappy Black Girl Day!\u201d,  a  holiday created by  Brooklyn diva extraordinaire and fellow blogger   <a href=\"http:\/\/thebeautifulstruggler.com\/2010\/03\/happy-black-girl-day-2-happier-and-blacker.html\">Sister     Toldja<\/a>.\u00a0 This once-a-month holiday allows us to take a break  from    the constant media assault on Black women and to celebrate the   sisterhood   with showers of positivity.\u00a0 The way I choose to celebrate   HBGD is by   highlighting an extraordinary and prototypical Black  woman.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>July&#8217;s Prototype<\/strong>: Dawn Flythe Moore, Director of Business Development, Corporate, and Foundation Philanthropy for the Network for Teaching Entrepreneurship, and former Chief of Staff to Maryland Lieutenant Governor Anthony Brown.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Dawn Flythe Moore has always had a heart for public service and a mind for success.\u00a0 Growing up in Queens, New York with an operating engineer father and school-teacher  mother, she credits her parents and their union-member background for instilling within her the importance of community and civic duty. Though she wasn&#8217;t exactly sure of how she wanted to impact the world while a student at the University of Maryland, College Park, Dawn knew she wanted to do her part in helping to bring positive change to the world.\u00a0 After college, under the guidance of her mentor, former Maryland Secretary of State <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msa.md.gov\/msa\/mdmanual\/08conoff\/former\/html\/msa12062.html\">John Willis<\/a>, her passion for politics and public service was ignited:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">In college I majored  in government and politics with a focus on women&#8217;s studies. I am a feminist at heart, and I  could see what  children and women were going through; and I could see the need for a better quality of life for our children. I  wanted to get  involved in public service somehow. \u00a0So I decided public service was the best way for me to get  involved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In 2002 she worked as a field coordinator for Prince George&#8217;s County on Kathleen Kennedy Townsend&#8217;s Maryland gubernatorial campaign. She worked overtime handling the day-to-day responsibilities for Prince George&#8217;s County, and recalled being lost in the campaign where &#8220;nothing else existed&#8221; and her &#8220;whole life was focused on that,&#8221; only to be met with defeat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"> It was a tough loss. I really believed in her and I felt her values were in the right place. It was heartbreaking. We did really well in Prince George\u2019s County. We actually had the highest voter turnout in history. But even still, we were unsuccessful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>But Dawn wasn&#8217;t down for long:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">You have to be a resilient person to lose. You just  have to move on.\u00a0 I couldn\u2019t let politics go, I kept getting pulled back into it.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">I fell in love  with it because being on the ground and seeing the effect that you have  on people\u2019s lives is transformational. I loved working at the state level because I was close enough to the people to see the effect you were having and why its so important to be involved becomes so clear. I  became very passionate about politics after that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>She moved onward and upward to become Anthony Brown&#8217;s chief of staff during Maryland&#8217;s gubernatorial race, and then took on a second responsibility as the deputy campaign manager of the successful Martin O&#8217;Malley- Anthony Brown campaign for governor and lieutenant governor. Upon their election, Dawn transitioned into the position of Senior Adviser for Government Affairs to Lt. Governor Brown. As one of the highest positioned women in the country within a campaign at that time, Moore was ecstatic &#8212; but not totally surprised. She had a vision for her life:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">You certainly  have to seek the things that you want out of life.\u00a0 You have to have a plan for your life and you  have to say you want to achieve these goals. But, I also know I was very  fortunate that when I was seeking what I wanted, I had people around me who wanted to help me achieve  these goals. I had people who wanted me to achieve my potential,  and I think those things can set you apart.\u00a0 And obviously you have to perform. You  have to over-perform.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>And Dawn <em>embodies<\/em> what it means to over-perform. Upon moving to New York, Dawn sought out a fund-raising position with the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nfte.com\/\">Network for Teaching Entrepreneurship<\/a> &#8212; though she really had no fund-raising experience.\u00a0 And despite her experience as a powerful state-official, she was still\u00a0 informed that there were no positions available in the organization but that she could start out as a part-time consultant.\u00a0 Undeterred, Dawn took the job.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"> I didn\u2019t care. I knew I would do well. I <em>love<\/em> the mission of NFTE, and so that&#8217;s what was important to me. The mission is to provide children from  low-income  communities with an entrepreneurship education, and to help children  find their  own pathway  to prosperity, leave high school with a plan  for  success, go on to  college, and possibly even start a business or move on to gainful employment. This is  the American Way.\u00a0 And we teach them to adopt these attitudes no matter what station they are at in life, to help  these children see their potential and to give them access to certain   opportunities that they otherwise might not have had is exciting to me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">So, no, I didn&#8217;t care. I was already  confident that I would get a director position. But until then, I was literally licking stamps and stuffing envelopes!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">There was no  job that was too small or too menial, because at the end of the day, my goal was to get a leadership  position within this organization. So, they had to be able to say that &#8220;not only is she highly competent, she\u2019s so committed  to the organization.&#8221;\u00a0 I wanted them to see me giving more than 100%. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>*This might be as good a time as any to note that Dawn&#8217;s husband, Wes Moore &#8212; former White House Fellow, Afghanistan war veteran, businessman, philanthropist, and <em>New York Times best-selling <\/em>author of &#8220;<a href=\"..\/?page_id=700\">The Other Wes Moore<\/a>,&#8221; &#8212; has been hailed, for good reason, as &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/blackmenconfrontingthelies.blogspot.com\/2009\/11\/wes-moore-next-barack-obama.html\">The Next Barack Obama<\/a>.&#8221;\u00a0 Needless to say, her husband is successful in his own right.\u00a0 So, you can imagine my surprise when she said she was stuffing envelopes at a non-profit organization and trying to work her way up to a directorship after she had been involved in the administration of an entire state.\u00a0 I had to ask her <em>why<\/em> she would do that, when she could&#8217;ve been sitting at home, doing yoga, making clay pots, <em>anything<\/em> other than taking a job far below her qualifications, which required her to do menial tasks. She laughed and said:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">It was always  important for me to be with a person where we were building something  great together. Walking into a ready made situation wasn\u2019t  something that I wanted. I wanted a person I could build a legacy with.  That takes two people. I&#8217;m not taking away from a woman who wants to stay  home &#8212; my mother stayed home for 10 years and that made such a  difference in my life. But Wes and I don\u2019t have children, so I have to focus on what we each  bring as individuals to create a force. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">So, obviously that is a strong value to me. As an individual, you have to  have things that fulfill you. Of course I love to have fun, I love yoga,  I love to do that when I have the time for it, but even with my job, Wes  and I have small development projects, and I oversee  that. I also redid our condo and I loved that. To me, everything I do is contributing to whatever legacy that we, God-willing, will leave behind. I believe that [for a successful marriage] we have to be a team &#8212; and I&#8217;m a team-player.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>And of course, she achieved her goal and is now the Director of Business Development. She went on to gush about NFTE and why she <em>had <\/em>to be a part of that organization:<span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">At NFTE we are about the business of connecting academics to real-life. We also help them to tap into their own entrepreneurial spirit. The entrepreneurial mindset that the only way the business succeeds is if I succeed, and &#8212;\u00a0 no matter what they&#8217;ve been told &#8212; <em>they<\/em> are in control of their destiny. We teach them to develop their entrepreneurial spirit in any space they are in. With that mindset, hopefully these kids will internalize a spirit that says   &#8220;I\u2019ve got to make it successful, because if I don\u2019t, no one else will.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">I stay very involved in what is going on in the classrooms of the kids in our program, because as Director of Business Development, I have to know what&#8217;s going on so I can communicate it to our funders. If I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going on in the classroom, I can&#8217;t give feedback. I can&#8217;t speak passionately.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve seen the effect that the program can have on these kids.\u00a0 We set high expectations of success for them to achieve. As adults, we have so much influence on  their lives, we should take advantage\u00a0 by setting high expectations for them to meet and instilling confidence in them. At NFTE, we know, whether you\u2019re in middle school or high  school, if  we give you the skills to create your business plan, you\u2019re  going to  be able to achieve it.We don&#8217;t expect less.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>NFTE now reaches over 65,000 children internationally. And it is her sense of responsibility to those children and her community that keeps her grounded, disciplined, and over-achieving:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"> I am so disciplined because I feel like I have a responsibility to\u00a0 be that way.\u00a0 [Anyone who is having difficulty staying on task should ask themselves]: What is your  responsibility  and who is  depending on you to get those things done? <\/span><\/p>\n<p>It is that responsibility to others that she hopes she and her husband Wes will leave behind as their legacy:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">I hope people will look  back on my and my husband\u2019s life and hopefully see that\u00a0 we tried to make other people\u2019s  lives better. [I hope they&#8217;ll see that] we understood that it was a privilege to be in this great  country, to be a child of God and we never took that for granted, and  that no matter how blessed we are, we really tried to help foster positive change in  other people&#8217;s lives. If you go through life just being about yourself,  you\u2019ll end up very empty. It\u2019s so important to try to make a difference in  other people\u2019s lives. I believe you need it  to feel fulfilled. That&#8217;s what I want: to be fulfilled.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Poised and polished, and yet as down-to-earth and genuinely warm as a person can be, Dawn seemed so ripe both for political office herself, and as a valued asset for any political career her husband might pursue.\u00a0 Though she was extremely flattered and &#8220;proud&#8221; about the Barack and Michelle comparisons floating around on the internet, Dawn has closed the door on running for office:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">No, I don&#8217;t see [that for myself].&#8221;I  want to continue to see where NFTE takes me. As an   organization we serve 65,000 kids now, domestically and internationally.   I hope to be a part of that process to see how we can get to serving   more people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"> I think I\u2019ll be in some way, shape, or form in  public service.I like the behind-the-scenes part of it.\u00a0 But I feel there are so many other ways  to affect the public than through holding public office.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As for her husband Wes?<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">I think we are like-minded in [how we feel about running for office].\u00a0 He has so many wonderful opportunities [available to him], but\u00a0 he also believes that you can serve without having to necessarily  run and have to be an elected official. Sometimes you can do more as an individual,  because you can focus\u00a0 on how you want to make your impact.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>To all the young\u00a0 women who come behind Dawn, she implores you to:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">Follow your passion and work from a place of \u00a0passion, because  that is going to carry you further than anything else. When you have  that fire inside, its hard to extinguish that. Figure out what your  passion is and then, by any means necessary, get involved with it, because  it is amazing, the change that you can create by doing what you love. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">I hope young women will realize the  importance of women helping women. That is so personal for me because I know the network of women I have had &#8212; starting with my mother who is my shero, the women in my family, and the girlfriends I&#8217;ve had since I was 14 years old &#8212; has been such a blessing to me. I think we need more of that. We have so much to  offer as women to society and to this world.\u00a0 It&#8217;s amazing, when we come  together, what we can accomplish.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>What we can learn from Dawn:<\/strong> See the bigger picture; know that there is no task or opportunity too small when you are executing your vision; let your work ethic speak for you; and have a fire that no one can extinguish; &#8220;work from a place of passion&#8221;; and live a life that is fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>Saving our future 65,000 children at a time, Dawn Flythe Moore is <em>the<\/em> <em>next Dawn Flythe Moore<\/em>, and she is most definitely: The Prototype.<\/p>\n<p><em>Click <a href=\"https:\/\/3eighteenmedia.wufoo.com\/forms\/2010-black-weblog-awards-nomination-form\/\">here<\/a> to vote www.dcdistrictdiva.com for Best New Blog, Best Writing in a Blog, and Blog to Watch<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photographer: Taiye Selasi Four months ago, I introduced many of you\u00a0 to \u201cHappy Black Girl Day!\u201d, a holiday created by Brooklyn diva extraordinaire and fellow blogger Sister Toldja.\u00a0 This once-a-month holiday allows us to take a break from the constant media assault on Black women and to celebrate the sisterhood<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":789,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[26],"tags":[241,946],"class_list":["post-788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-happy-black-girl-day","tag-dawn-flythe-moore","tag-happy-black-girl-day"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2010\/07\/X_061.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7nB6F-cI","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/788","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=788"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/788\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/789"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=788"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=788"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=788"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}