{"id":3190,"date":"2013-05-05T01:46:11","date_gmt":"2013-05-05T05:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.districtdiva.com\/?p=3190"},"modified":"2013-05-05T01:46:11","modified_gmt":"2013-05-05T05:46:11","slug":"fitzgerald-grant-is-the-worst-character-on-television-period","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/fitzgerald-grant-is-the-worst-character-on-television-period\/","title":{"rendered":"Fitzgerald Grant is the Worst Character on Television&#8211;Period"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The only thing I like about &#8220;Scandal&#8221;s president, Fitzgerald Grant, is that he is not a real person. That means I can hate him freely and without shame in a way that I could never allow myself to hate a real person. And I really hate this guy. He&#8217;s the scum of the television earth. He&#8217;s the worst. EVER. And here&#8217;s why.<\/p>\n<p>Months back I wrote a little post called, &#8220;<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.districtdiva.com\/2012\/12\/that-is-not-love-a-teachable-moment-from-scandal\/\" target=\"_blank\">That&#8217;s NOT Love! A Teachable Moment from &#8216;Scandal<\/a>,<\/span><\/strong>&#8216;&#8221; in which I laid out the case for why Fitz does not really love Olivia, mainly because he had never sacrificed anything to be with her.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>If Fitz really\u00a0<em>loved<\/em>\u00a0Olivia, he couldn\u2019t possibly have risked her reputation, her integrity, and her self-respect by sleeping with her in the first place, let alone have a full-on affair with her. \u00a0He would\u2019ve sacrificed his desire for her in order to shield her from the inevitable pain he would cause her by never allowing her the opportunity to be fully valued, respected and honored the way someone who loves you would know you deserve. Instead, he put his own desire to keep her around over her need to be validated, respected and honored.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Well some of y&#8217;all nearly lost your minds<\/strong> when Fitz &#8220;sacrificed&#8221; his political career in this week&#8217;s episode &#8220;for Liv.&#8221; In the episode, Fitz&#8217;s wife, Mellie, has moved out of the White House, taken their son with her and threatened to go on national television to expose Fitz as a philandering whore if he doesn&#8217;t stop messing around with his years-long mistress, Liv. \u00a0Mellie gives Fitz 36 hours to choose: his family and his political career or his side-ho. \u00a0At the end of the 36 hours, Mellie is alone, in tears and ready for her national close-up. Fitz is in the shower with Liv (who is NOT wearing shower cap&#8230;where they do that at?!) And the world of Twitter rejoiced.<\/p>\n<p><em>SEE!! He DOES love LIV! Look at him letting Mellie go on national TV and expose him as a cheater so he can be with Liv openly!!<\/em>\u00a0What a sacrifice!!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.districtdiva.com\/2014\/02\/scandal-is-back-and-wack-as-ever-watch-this-parody-instead\/\" target=\"_blank\">READ THE LATEST: &#8216;SCANDAL&#8217; IS BACK&#8230;AND WACK AS EVER (WATCH THIS PARODY INSTEAD!!<\/a>)<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>No. Nooooooooooo, No, no, no, no, no. This no-good sucker who has been MARRIED to his WIFE for over a DECADE did not even have the decency to go to the mother of his THREE children, look her in her dern FACE and tell her, &#8220;I know you&#8217;re not happy. I&#8217;m not happy. Don&#8217;t do this 36-hours thing, Let&#8217;s get a divorce. If you need to go on television and expose this, I understand. I&#8217;ve hurt you and you deserved better than how I&#8217;ve treated you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, Fitzgerald Grant doesn&#8217;t do this.<\/strong> \u00a0Mellie, supposedly the &#8220;evil one&#8221; in this scenario, at least had the decency and respect to tell Fitz to his face what she was doing and when, and do you think our &#8220;hero&#8221; returned the favor? Of course not. It&#8217;s Fitz we&#8217;re talking about. He let her sit for 36 hours with no communication, no inkling of what his plans were, leaving her to hope that for once in his life, he&#8217;d choose her. He doesn&#8217;t. She blasts him on television. And it didn&#8217;t have to be that way.<\/p>\n<p>I bet $10 Mellie would not have gone on national television if Fitz would&#8217;ve come to her as respectfully as that. \u00a0People can be hurt by others&#8217; decisions, but well-adjusted people can at least respect a decision that they don&#8217;t like when they&#8217;ve FIRST been treated with respect. That arrogant, child-king Fitz wouldn&#8217;t know respect or honor if it duct-taped him to a chair and drilled into his knee-caps (which <strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scandaltvshow.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/huck-holding-an-ear.png\" target=\"_blank\">Huck might do<\/a><\/span><\/strong> to Fitz when Liv&#8217;s reputation is irrevocably damaged by this absolutely ridiculous affair).<\/p>\n<p><strong>This is what I don&#8217;t understand<\/strong>: how could Liv look at Fitz (how could FITZ look at FITZ?!) for 22 minutes, knowing that his wife was somewhere waiting for him to come back to her. How could Liv not say, &#8220;You need to talk to your wife, tell her it&#8217;s over. You&#8217;re being a complete coward by sitting here with me and letting the clock run out.&#8221; Why don&#8217;t Liv and the OliviFitz fanatics demand that Fitz EVER be a man and be responsible for his life choices? Things are always happening\u00a0<em>to<\/em> Fitz. He&#8217;s never responsible for what goes on in his life. It&#8217;s his horrible daddy&#8217;s fault or his horrible wife&#8217;s fault or it&#8217;s horrible Cyrus&#8217;s fault or horrible LIV&#8217;s fault (y&#8217;all do remember when he &#8220;hated&#8221; Liv and called her a WHORE after having sex with her in a closet, right?!) Fitz is never to blame for why he does what he does.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And back to Mellie.<\/strong> Yes, she&#8217;s terrible. She&#8217;s calculating. She&#8217;s cold and withholding &#8211;probably very much like Fitz&#8217;s own mother, based on the irritating and entitled way he moves about the world, but that&#8217;s another blog post. But she&#8217;s still his wife. He took vows with her. He&#8217;s had children with her. He&#8217;s spent over a decade of his life with his woman and it doesn&#8217;t mean anything. \u00a0Why, because she&#8217;s not Liv?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve already seen that Liv doesn&#8217;t get special treatment from Fitz. When he believes someone has &#8220;wronged&#8221; him, he believes his actions &#8212; even to the point of MURDER, people!! remember that??&#8211;are justified. He can degrade and destroy Liv emotionally, call her a slut and tell her she&#8217;s nothing to him, because Liv did something he didn&#8217;t like. What makes Liv or anyone else think he would treat her any different than he is treating Mellie if things continue to not go his way down the line?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mellie and Cyrus and Charlie and many others on &#8220;Scandal&#8221;<\/strong> <del>and other shows<\/del>\u00a0(scratch that&#8211;there are no other shows besides &#8220;Scandal.&#8221; It&#8217;s the only reason your television was invented.) those folks are despicable characters that we love to hate. But the thing about those other characters is that they don&#8217;t pretend to be anything other than who they are. Those characters are not championed as the &#8220;ideal&#8221; by masses or themselves. But on this show and even in real life, people are falling all over this Fitz character as if he is in anyway desirable as a person&#8211;fantasy or otherwise. But from the affair, the constant disrespect to his wife and children and even to Liv, whom he claims to love, all the way through to the murder of Verna, we see that\u00a0Fitz lacks integrity, human decency and common respect. This narcissistic man-child shouldn&#8217;t be desired, he should be committed.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s all I have to say about that.<\/p>\n<p><em>Are you here for Fitz and his shenanigans? 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