{"id":1046,"date":"2010-09-03T11:37:03","date_gmt":"2010-09-03T16:37:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/?p=1046"},"modified":"2010-09-03T11:37:03","modified_gmt":"2010-09-03T16:37:03","slug":"thank-you-for-listening-the-fenty-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/thank-you-for-listening-the-fenty-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"&quot;Thank you for listening&quot;: The Fenty Problem"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_1047\" style=\"width: 209px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/2005-11-03_feature_story_1839_2659.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1047\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1047\" title=\"2005-11-03_feature_story_1839_2659\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/2005-11-03_feature_story_1839_2659-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1047\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Why So Serious, Mayor Fenty?<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left\">I went to an event for D.C. Mayor Adrian Fenty on Wednesday night.\u00a0 Dubbed a &#8220;Meet &amp; Greet&#8221; event, I half-expected to &#8212; Meet &amp; Greet Fenty. That did not happen.\u00a0 I was slightly surprised by this, and not just because Fenty has been having a bit of a P.R. problem as the primary vote inches closer.\u00a0 Mostly, I was surprised because only a few hours beforehand, I received the following Tweet from the official Fenty twitter page:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Fentyseeyouthere.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1048\" title=\"Fentyseeyouthere\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Fentyseeyouthere-300x159.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"159\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Though I had heard the excuse that the hostage situation &#8212; in Silver Spring, Maryland &#8212; caused him not to attend, I don&#8217;t think there is any official word on why he didn&#8217;t show.\u00a0 I pressed the Fenty camp on his absence and they responded via Twitter:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/whatsthedealfenty.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1049\" title=\"whatsthedealfenty\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/whatsthedealfenty-300x158.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"158\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/fentyresponse.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1050\" title=\"fentyresponse\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/fentyresponse-300x170.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"170\" \/><\/a>First of all, Why, Thank You!! I did win the 2010 Black Weblog Award for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/?p=989\">Best New Blog<\/a>. *woot woot*\u00a0 And I did have a great time at the event, held at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mezzalunadc.com\/\">Mezza Luna<\/a> restaurant in DuPont.\u00a0 You know I l<a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcdistrictdiva.com\/?cat=6\">ove my food<\/a>, and the family-owned Mezza Luna had one of the savoriest chicken wings lightly coated in a smoky barbecue sauce and one of the tastiest white sangrias I&#8217;ve had in D.C.\u00a0 Add to that great conversations with my fellow district residents and new friends, and I would definitely count the night a success.\u00a0 But I was really looking forward to speaking with the Mayor directly. After all of the negative press Fenty has received and the characterizations of him as &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/topics.nytimes.com\/top\/reference\/timestopics\/people\/f\/adrian_m_fenty\/index.html\">aloof<\/a>&#8221; and &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtoncitypaper.com\/articles\/39616\/is-adrian-fenty-a-jerk-politicians-say-he-is-but\">arrogant<\/a>&#8220;, I would have thought he would take every opportunity to show that he has been mischaracterized.<\/p>\n<p>In any event, I took the time to seek out Fenty&#8217;s Green Team members who were at this event, but I couldn&#8217;t find any at all.\u00a0 I did talk to some adamant supporters who validated my understanding that Fenty&#8217;s policies have reduced crime in the city and have improved the education system.\u00a0 And then I spoke with two D.C. teachers who are completely against D.C. Education Chancellor Michelle Rhee&#8217;s policies &#8212; including the evaluations that fired over 100 teachers last year.<\/p>\n<p>After only being in the city for a year, I&#8217;ve definitely seen tangible changes made in my neighborhood, and for the added convenience, I honestly don&#8217;t mind the $300 jump in rent that I&#8217;ll have to pay because of these improvements when my lease is up.\u00a0 And there is no doubt that Fenty&#8217;s complete overhaul of D.C. public schools has lead to higher graduation rates, and proficiency scores for students.\u00a0 He has put more police on the streets, has increased homicide case closures, and has dramatically decreased property and violent crimes in the city.<\/p>\n<p>Those are the most important issues for me (besides these ridiculous Metro fares and infrequent and dirty trains&#8230;who do I speak to about that???). But I guess the real question is, would mayoral candidate and city council chairman Vincent Gray make these same positive changes? And if so, why not vote for Gray just because <em>he listens<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the number one complaint I&#8217;ve heard about Fenty is that he is not listening to people&#8217;s concerns.\u00a0 Strikingly &#8212; though violent and property crime is down &#8212; the Firefighters and police union <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2010\/05\/27\/AR2010052705250.html\">endorsed<\/a> Gray over Fenty, saying:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">&#8220;Mayor Fenty has done nothing to warrant the endorsement and support of  D.C. firefighters,&#8221; said Ray Sneed, president of the firefighters&#8217; Local  36. &#8220;From a labor standpoint, he is unreachable, unapproachable and our  correspondence goes unanswered.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s also the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtoncitypaper.com\/blogs\/citydesk\/2010\/04\/26\/fenty-met-with-dorothy-height-before-her-death\/\">reported snubbing<\/a> of civil rights&#8217; icon Dorothy Height and Maya Angelou. Fenty twice canceled meetings with the two\u00a0 legendary women, prompting a <em>Washington Post<\/em> editorial about Fenty&#8217;s &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2010\/08\/24\/AR2010082406274.html\">unlikely<\/a>&#8221; chances of winning, because Fenty had &#8220;los[t] the love of Black women,&#8221; as a result of these snubs.<\/p>\n<p>And then, there was the DCDistrictDiva &#8220;snub.&#8221;\u00a0 I took the 45 minute bus ride out to the Fenty campaign headquarters on Georgia Ave only to wait on the official I was supposed to be meeting with &#8212; for two and a half hours.\u00a0 I did data entry &#8212; which I hate &#8212; while I waited for the official, but it right at that 2.5 hours mark, I had had enough and I walked out.\u00a0 I emailed him about this and he apologized, saying it was a\u00a0 &#8220;misunderstanding.&#8221; In any event, I tweeted about it, and, guess who responded?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to base my decision on who I vote for on what could possibly maybe might have been a &#8220;misunderstanding,&#8221; or on strictly emotional issues, such as how a politician makes me <em>feel<\/em>.\u00a0 I care about education for our youth, crime levels, and homelessness most of all in this city.\u00a0 If a politician is nice to me, but doesn&#8217;t produce <em>any results<\/em> that I support (*ahem* George W. is so cool, I&#8217;d love to have a beer with him! *ahem*), then I don&#8217;t want that either. But, like it or not, personality matters.\u00a0 <em>Listening Matters<\/em>.\u00a0 Gray listened to a concern that I had &#8212; though admittedly minuscule &#8212; and <em>responded<\/em>.\u00a0 Just like the young D.C. teacher I met at the Meet &amp; Greet said: &#8220;In a relationship, all girls want the guy who <em>listens<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That sentiment was echoed to me again after the Fenty party in the most unexpected of places: my cab.\u00a0 I was heading home from DuPont and immediately reporting via phone that Fenty was a no-show. Who chimed into my phone call? My taxicab driver, Foday. In fact, Foday was so passionate about the issue that my 10-minute ride home turned into a 45 minute <em>this is what&#8217;s wrong with Fenty<\/em> session.\u00a0 He railed on the taxicab fare cap that Fenty has imposed, which, he said, prevents cabbies from making a living wage.\u00a0 He even gave me a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcwashington.com\/news\/local-beat\/Cab-Drivers-Rally-Against-Mayor-Fenty-95320184.html\">flier<\/a> of the campaign against Fenty&#8217;s policies that cab drivers have organized.\u00a0 (I personally am a fan of low cab fare, but I would be willing to pay more if the fares are, indeed, preventing the cabbies from making a living. ) When Foday had said his peace, he glanced up toward the ceiling of the cab and took a deep breath before looking back at me.\u00a0 &#8220;Thank you for listening, I can tell you are a good girl,&#8221; he said to me.<\/p>\n<p>Wow. Imagine if Fenty had been sitting in that seat instead of me.\u00a0 While 45 minutes of just <em>listening<\/em> to people wouldn&#8217;t melt away all of the negative press he&#8217;s been getting, it certainly would have helped.\u00a0 To his credit, Fenty recently released an ad saying he was sorry for his mistakes and if we re-elect him, he&#8217;ll do better next time.\u00a0 Great. So in your next term, answer the phone when people call you, reach back out to the unions you have lost, have regular town hall meetings to allow people to voice their concerns.\u00a0 But what about <em>now<\/em>. The moment he realized that he was losing ground with the people and was being characterized as someone who is &#8220;aloof,&#8221; his communications team should have gone into high gear, scheduling town halls to let people say their &#8220;peace,&#8221; open up a dialogue, and let people know that he cares, he understands, and he is working on it.<\/p>\n<p>But, I would never argue that he <em>doesn&#8217;t<\/em> care; indeed, my first glimpse of Fenty was seeing him in a tan wool pea coat and a matching ivy hat, speaking to reporters in the cold of winter as news of a little boy shot in the head by a stray bullet in Columbia Heights rang out.\u00a0 Seeing him there to support the family in their most nightmarish of hours made a huge impression on me.\u00a0 As his wife Michelle came out and <a href=\"http:\/\/voices.washingtonpost.com\/reliable-source\/2010\/09\/rs-_michelle_fenty.html\">said<\/a> &#8212; through tears &#8212; last week:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\">&#8220;The reason he goes out there every single day moving 1,000 miles an hour is for the people of Washington, D.C. and for them not to understand that the whole point of his actions is for them is very difficult.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The problem? <em>Perception is nine-tenths of the law<\/em>. He needs to do more showing and telling about the things he&#8217;s actually done, because he <em>has<\/em> done a lot.<\/p>\n<p>Fenty is the incumbent here. This is his race to lose.\u00a0 Yet, Gray is in the best position because really, all he has to say is that <em>I&#8217;ll do the same thing Fenty&#8217;s doing, except I&#8217;ll do it with a smile, and answer your questions in a timely fashion<\/em>, as Jonetta Rose Barras noted in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonexaminer.com\/local\/Gray_s-education-plan-mimics-Fenty_s-97883559.html#ixzz0yU2ia1zF\"><em>Examiner<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff\"><span style=\"color: #000000\">People shouldn&#8217;t make important decisions based on emotions &#8212; people shouldn&#8217;t vote based on how a politician makes them <em>feel<\/em> but based on the results the politician brings&#8211; but people do it, anyway.\u00a0 It&#8217;s stupid, and it&#8217;s all in the game.\u00a0 And auditory skills might just be the game-changer. <\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonexaminer.com\/local\/Gray_s-education-plan-mimics-Fenty_s-97883559.html#ixzz0yU2ia1zF\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I went to an event for D.C. 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That did not happen.\u00a0 I was slightly surprised by this, and not just because Fenty has been having a bit of a P.R.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1051,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[27],"tags":[227,604,723,1000],"class_list":["post-1046","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-the-usual-dithering","tag-d-c","tag-mayor-adrian-fenty","tag-politickin","tag-vincent-gray"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7nB6F-gS","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1046","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1046"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1046\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brookeobie.com\/districtdiva\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}